Yes Ma'am.

  All “recently” and “not-so-recently” single girls (and boys, I guess) need to have that one single friend (of the same sex) who will be their yes man. As “recently” and “not-so-recently” single girls (and boys” will want to escape their reality for a little bit, or even do something that is unconventional for them so they can get away.

    Yes, we all need a yes man. I guess you could equate that to a wingman but wingpeople help you get game. Yes People are game to any adventure and is readily available when you need them. They support you, and help you take your mind of things. You might say “That’s what bestfriends are for.” Well, I beg to differ. Sometimes, having known someone for a long time is a drag to have as a yes man. They know you very well, morality issues ensue.. and spontaneity, adventure and the exploration of the unknown goes out the window.

    Yes people are the fuck buddies of relationships. You share fun time together, but you don’t have to worry about holding their hands and tiptoeing around their emotions. There is no deep, emotional commitment involved.

    A yes man should have little to no inhibitions, have an awesome sense of adventure, can differentiate right from wrong YET justify the wrongness of an action to be committed so as not to make you feel bad, and will not let you go home with a douche.

    A yes man should also have, at the very least, a sense of responsibility to look out for your well being and not get distracted and pry his/her attention away from you. Otherwise, you’re going home with a douche.

    Yes people are not used in a demeaning manner. In fact, they should be regarded with so much appreciation for being readily available to meet your temporary needs. I am proud to say that I have a yes man. And I will readily be a yes man to a friend (or semi friend) in need.

    The world will be a better place if everyone has a yes man.